Sunday, 28 September 2008
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So about him...
There's this guy that I'm into right now. I'll give you a little history.
We became friends because he requested me on Facebook in Fall '07. He requested me because he thought he'd met me before, but that wasn't the case. We talked for a bit and then it stopped.
Then, during this summer we started talking again for a bit. I was out of town for the summer, though, so we couldn't meet up. All of a sudden, though, he disappeared. I was used to this by other guys so I wasn't totally surprised.
The next time we talked again he messaged me on Facebook and we started a conversation again. This time he asked me to meet up with him for a date since I was back in town. We met up and it was a really fun time. We met at a museum and watched a movie in that museum's Imax theater. Then we went to his place, watched another movie, went out to eat (where he explained to me about why he had disappeared the first time, and it made total sense), then watched another movie, and fell asleep. He was very sweet to me the whole time and we just felt very comfortable and natural together.
That was about three weeks ago, and in between then and now we would text every once in a while. I was worried that maybe he was planning on disappearing again, but he would always end up texting. For example... it was always in spurts. Like there would be a 15 to 20 minute period where we would text back and forth and then all of a sudden the answers wouldn't come anymore. It was weird to me, but I tried to brush it off. There would also be days that we'd go without saying anything to each other. Now, I don't like that at all, but I had to keep reminding myself that we're not dating and that I shouldn't expect that. I was just worried... Maybe he's just not that into me?
Anyway, he ended up coming to my town this Saturday and we spent the evening together. While here he answered my questions about not texting back sometimes and we talked about a relationship. One of the sweetest things he told me was this: "I usually can see when things are one of a kind and I see that in you, and I really like you". Now that's not just some line that I've heard over and over again, so I really have no doubts as to whether or not he likes me anymore. He explained that the main restraints on the relationship aspect would be that we're in different towns (about 30 mins away), he feels dependent on others right now, and he's just gotten back into school with 15 hours.
One of the best things that I liked about hanging out with him is that he loves to touch me, and I love to be touched. He would just start massaging my back or my feet and I just love, love, love that. Usually you have to beg a guy to do things like that and he does it without me even asking.
I'm still in a bit of a dreamy state over it all, but I really think this can work.
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Comments (7)
Best of luck wishes to you =]
Keep on Swingin'
@XxNoLifeKing_AlucardxX@xanga - Wow, thanks :) I was just looking at your Xanga earlier, ahah. :)
@That_Girl_74 - Ja I saw on my footprints lol hi =]
aweeee :] how cute, get it :] he sounds amazing, good luck with that and i hope everything works out with you, thanks for the reply by the way, i decided that it would be too complicated anyways.
awww cute! I hope it works out for you :). yeah those are some good tips, I may have to try something sometime. have a good one! :)
Good luck but beware of men who disappear. If they do it once, they're bound to do it again. If he does it again, be done with him or he'll feel like that's a license to just keep coming back and disappearing from your life.
Otherwise though, he sounds like a sweetheart so I hope it works out for you.
@hopelessromantic - Oh believe me I know what you mean. He had a pretty darn good reason for the second time, and the first time was just both of us not talking to each other... :)