Monday, 18 May 2009

• Yet again, haven't updated recently

  So it's been since February 17th.

  I talked about C - he and I dated for almost three months, then he decided that he didn't want to be with me.  He thought I was too type A for his type B personality, but of course he gave me some kind of BS about not having "fixed" himself after his relationship ending last November.

  I started talking to a guy, B, who lives near my mom.  I just moved back from school, so we'll see how it goes.  He came out to visit the first night I was near here, which was nice of him, considering he'd never met my family and it was just me and my family.  He stayed until about 12:30 or so.  We had a fun time.  I was concerned that he was too interested in sex rather than a relationship...  We talked about it and I found that we're on the same page - both of us want us to have more investment in each other before we do any kind of sex (oral, etc).  However, messing around by touching seems to be okay.

  I'm having a bit of a conflict within myself - is it okay to touch and play without sex and not feel like I'm being slutty, if he feels the same way?  What is your view on this, if you're a guy?

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