Like I said in the last post, J came to my hometown on Tuesday.  When I first gave him directions I told him the wrong exit (238 instead of 328, which is the one I meant to say), so it's good that he texted to verify.  I was so upset with myself that I had texted him the wrong exit, but thank goodness he wasn't too far away from it when he realized it must be wrong.

When he got to the house we kissed, and he later told me that he didn't want to stop kissing me he had missed me so much.  That was really sweet.  We went immediately to the mall because I needed to pick up a gift that was waiting for me and he wanted to find some gifts for his family.  We walked around the mall for quite a while and then went back to the house, where my step-mom was.  So, he met her and we went on our way and went to a little bar and grill so I could get a snack and he could have a beer.

Right after the bar we went to K&G's house, two people very important to me.  They really enjoyed J's company and really liked him as a person and as my boyfriend.  I opened some gifts and we had a good time just talking and having dinner.  K fixed some lasagna which was SO delicious.

J is a hotel employee so we stayed at that company's hotel in my hometown that night for pretty darn cheap.  It was such a fun evening.  We really enjoyed each other's company.  The next morning we woke up at our leisure and went to a museum in the area, which neither of us had been to.  After the museum I took him over to my real hometown, which is a suburb of where my dad & step-mom live now.  I showed him where I went to school as well as places I frequented and we had lunch at a local restaurant with an old friend of mine from high school.

After lunch we went back to my dad's house and we relaxed and waited for dinner time, which is when we had dinner planned with my dad and step-mom.  It was J's first time meeting my dad, so I was a bit nervous but knew they'd get along fine.  Dinner went very well and a good time was had by all, thankfully, and everyone has been telling me how good it was to meet J.  I'm so glad everyone enjoyed him as much as I do.

So, about that possibility.

I'm really excited about him!  We'll call him J.  He asked me out on Wednesday for lunch, and we went, and it was cute.  I wasn't expecting to be able to hang out with him the next couple of days, but we worked it out.  Thursday he was on campus studying so we hung out twice - once during a break in class, then right after class.

He still wanted to see me again so we met up the next day, Friday, for lunch.  We ate and then he went off with his friends.  Like I said in the last post, I had another guy to hang out with that night.  I didn't tell J this, but only because I knew that the new guy wouldn't actually turn into a relationship.  He's 28, so that would have been silly to think about.  He was a really fun guy though, we were laughing the whole night and I can see him being a good friend.

Saturday I was busy and J was working, and Sunday was super busy too, but J really wanted to see me so he invited me over for some wine, hot tubbing, and movies.  When I got there I used the bathroom right quick and when I came out he already had two glasses of wine poured.  Then when we decided to go to the hot tub, I changed and when I got out he already had the wine moved over to the hot tub, two towels waiting, and the tub was warm.  I never expected him to be this prepared, and he later told me this was his whole goal - to give me a really nice evening.

Monday I got a little worried because he texted me to see what I was doing but then never texted me back, but he texted me Tuesday so I was very happy with that.  He apologized for not writing me back and came out to campus to have lunch with a friend and I.  My friend was in the middle of a very raunchy story about a friend of hers she made out with that weekend...  Tonight we were talking and he seemed worried I was going to reveal information to her about us, even though nothing has happened yet.  These little things, like him thinking about us in a future and saying things like "I gotta know these things if we're going to take this further" (He was making a joke about asking if I liked Lady Gaga and I asked why he wondered =P)

Girls, what are your feelings on limiting what you tell your girlfriends about your relationship?  Do you let it all hang out, or do you keep certain things private?  What information do you think is okay to tell?

Guys, if you're the type to be somewhat private or definitely private with your relationships, what kinds of things would you consider totally off limits for a girl to tell her girlfriends?  Does it just end at sexual things, or are you weird with her telling her girlfriends about the sweet things you do for her?  Where do you draw the line?